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Originally Posted by Vilatus
Funny you say that, as my ex boyfriend asked about my feelings about kids once, and pretty much immediately broke up with me when I voiced my feelings. (Also we were 17 at the time, like wtf??) There's no compromising when it comes to your body and comfort.
I have a few as well, and it really does help.
See, even if I wanted kids that's something I would worry about. A child shouldn't be forced to worry about their family's financial situation. I commend you for being responsible in that aspect, unlike so many other people.
On a similar note, even if I did want kids, I feel it would be cruel of me to have them. I suffer from severe depression and anxiety, as well as numerous chronic health issues. It's not a quality of life I could pass onto someone with a clear conscience. I love my parents, but I'm very bitter that they chose to have me, knowing that they would pass these problems on. I've suffered because of it.
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Interesting. Do you think your bitterness towards your parents is the root cause of your dislike for children and having children? You may find your mind changed about having children, if you explore what caused you to feel and believe that. That may be something to explore with a therapist.