ya, you have the choices they give you, once they got ya hooked

just kidding ... of course we have choices to make

the amount of compromise needed may differ for everyone, depends on what you need .. to make you happy I guess

sometimes ya just got to take the good with the bad and vice versa ... in my honest opinion

what you need from a relation and what I need, may be different ..so I can only speak from my ever changing perspective and experiences