so perna... you sound very secure with yourself. why is it that some people are extremely jealous and some not? why is it that you can watch your husband look at other women and not mind but someone like me goes absolutely crazy over it? i know i probably have some kind of character disorder or neurosis but im just curious as to why total opposite ends of the spectrum come about? I agree that if Kimmy doesnt take offense to it and knows that its not in attempt to control her every move, then thats fine to feel good about it. I guess Im just curious as to what makes people so totally opposite when it comes to jealousy.