Presently I m not seeing a psychotherapist. The former one shifted somewhere else. Moreover, here there is a dearth of good psychotherapists. I have a friend in PC who helps and kinds of counsels me too. He has helped me a lot during my recently past severely depressive phase. Apart from that I would like to share more with my friend..the one I was talking about...I have to break his shell. He may still not accept me as his gf yet, but at least as a friend. I really care about him. He wanted to go to discs and one-day outings with me, but then retreated into his shell. I'll bring this topic up during our next lunch date which is a month away.

Now I am going to try and prepone that lunch date to Dec wk1. I will give him a call coming Mon late morn to discuss about the lunch date. I mssgd him sometime back.