Yeah, Reptile, she is the one moving out. I made that very clear from the beginning. We've only had casual discussions about the kids, but I think we would settle on a 50-50 split, kind of like a "half the week with me, half the week with her and every other weekend" type of thing. That's something we need to decide as we move forward.

She's a good mom and I'd never want to keep the kids away from her unless I thought she was behaving in a way that would harm our sons. At this point I don't see that happening, but... well... hindsight, right? I need to be vigilant.