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Test the situation until you feel you can reasonably trust it. One step at a time. If you have been tricked in the past, I don't think it is up to you to trust at the command of others.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yes, that makes very good sense to me, but then your posts always make sense to me. The way you make it sound--- "I" have the power-- NOT someone else.... I like that.

thanks pachyderm

mandy