My half-brother was bipolar and took Lithium and Zyprexa. He did gain a considerable amount of weight but it was the only thing that kept him from going manic. Sometimes we have to sacrifice and I know how hard that is. I refused to take Remeron (an anti-depressant) because I gained 8 lbs in a month. It made me feel better, but it just wasn't right. Abilify really changed the game for me and for the first time I felt like life was worth living.

Everyone reacts differently to medicine. Horror stories aside -- my advice go with what makes you comfortable. Consider your options wisely, and go into informed. Sometimes it's worth giving it a try, other times it may be a good thing to shy away..

Best of luck!