I probably am not the best listener, the bible says to be light on the tongue and heavy on the ears (I think)

I am not as good at that as I probably should be ...

but I try to understand people, best I can

sometimes I find that not every thing can have a 100% positive spin ..... or pretty picture painted, just to make it seem easier than it is, in my opinion

I dont think anyone wants to be alone always, though

and I believe there are more women than men out there, so the odds are in your favor ... to find one that you can tolerate and can tolerate you ...