Okay, pinksoil:
I hate to be the " doubting" thomas here, but I'd be careful if I were you. There are too many unscrupulous guys around in this field that might take advantage of the situation. You sound like you're in a real vulnerable state, and I'd hate to see you hurt by one of his big ideas!! Yes, he claims nothing will happen in here that YOU don't want to happen???? That sent the warning lights off in my head.
You be careful what you tell him pinksoil, tread lightly on uncharted waters..........you could get in way over your head.
Just trying to caution you here. You are putting way too much emphasis on the relationship, and you aren't thinking
of the consequences of " your" actions. He sure knows better than that. That's why I choose WOMEN for T's. They
don't get hot and bothered by inferences in the working relationships. That's all you have, I might say. Don't confuse it with something deeper than it is. I promise you,
it's NOT!!!!
If I have offended you, I apologize but I'd hate to see him take advantage of the situation. That's all.

Take care.
Again, be CAREFUL.
P.S. If he ever asks if the "little" girl would like to SIT on his LAP????...........get the hell out of there!!! I knew a friend from long ago that it happened to, and she didn't realize what he was after..................he just told her he needed to check the nerves in her legs. Oh, paleeeeeeeeez!!!!!