I told this story to other people on forums and they called me a bad parent and a **** poster.
Here it is I had to go to a Christmas sale I brought my daughter with me to sell my wares. I asked her to help me unload she said "No I don't want to" so I let it slide. through out the sale she took money out of my earnings with out asking me and buying food and she didnt finish it she left it,When i wasnt looking she took money and bought a 7 up and drank only a bit so I started to drink it, Then she asked me for my phone and didnt give it back till the end of the sale at 16%,After the big sale was over asked her to help me pack again it was a "No I dont have to do anything",So again I let it slide, reapeating to myself that shes just 13, ilooked for the half drank can of soda and I couldnt find it I asked her where it went she told me she dumped it out in the sink so she wasted my money on a can of soda that she didnt drink and I never finished my blood boiled by that point.
After the sale, some friends wanted to go uptown so I offered to drive them instead of taking 2 vehicles.Since gas prices are at an all-time high, we went to a restaurant and then I ordered fries for us to share for a light snack, she then tried to ask for a new soda I said "No" she let me have 3 fries and held it away and would whine when I'd reach for them she ate them all and gave me the empty basket I said "thanks for nothing literally". I then ordered my father(aka her grandpa)Some churros to take to him.
I took my friends and dropped them off at there vehicle and we were saying our goodbyes and my daughter says "well get OUt LEAVE, BYE"
Then she said out loud "LOOKS LIKE I GET FRONT SEAT NOW WHEN HE LEAVES GET OUT" now I was even angrier, I gave my dad the churros when we got inside and dad told me how much he was grateful and asked my daughter if she liked them and she said "I already tried them and my father said they are delicious and she looked at him and said "I THINK WE GET IT THAT YOU LIKE THEM". My face was red at this point
It came down to getting the boxes inside from the sale and I asked my daughter if shed help me take the stuff in she looked at me and said "I Don't have to cause I'm spoiled" and she walked into the house and I carried by myself.
As I said I tried to talk about this and someone gave me the dumbest advice in the world they said
"Call your ex and ask her about parenting techniques that she uses so you can use them too."
But her technique is whats causing the problem. I want to fix the problem I have 5 other kids I don't have the time or the funds to be treating her like a little princess that gets everything she wants.
so you must realize that this is bad advice

they told me on that forum that I'm a bad parent and that I'm the problem and that I'm the jerk, Or they say shes only 13.