Dear MC,
Is it possible that my transference for you has just...gone away? Was it you judging me and not really apologizing (until I basically fed you the words that I wanted to hear and you reluctantly said them)? Is it that you seem to still think I'm the one with all the issues in the marriage, that it's all up to me to change how I think and react and feel? Which doesn't seem fair or accurate...and just makes me feel bad about myself. Or did I just need to start seeing another male T-- one with (I think--so far) better boundaries? And one who seems to care and wants to help me, but is doing that by working with me in a partnership--not trying to "fix" me, like it often feels like you are? Some combination of the above?
--LT

ETA: I feel like I should be happy or relieved if it has in fact gone away, but instead I just feel sad and empty...