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Originally Posted by LonesomeTonight
OK, it's easy to say from the other side, from the person who isn't suffering from daily anxiety and depression and OCD. Sorry, but that's not a "dance" or whatever you called it with your H. I'm not doing this on purpose to suck him in or get some reaction out of him. I'm glad that all worked for you, but I bet your H was pretty miserable some of that time.
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Seriously? After what you know about me, you say I don't understand daily anxiety and depression? I was quite miserable in my own right. Come on now.
I also didn't say you were playing a game. I'm talking about the habits of interaction we get into as married couples. It is a "dance" in a way -- a push and pull -- that becomes habitual (and isn't either party's "fault" -- it takes two to tango as they say).