Seriously? After what you know about me, you say I don't understand daily anxiety and depression? I was quite miserable in my own right. Come on now.

I also didn't say you were playing a game. I'm talking about the habits of interaction we get into as married couples. It is a "dance" in a way -- a push and pull -- that becomes habitual (and isn't either party's "fault" -- it takes two to tango as they say).