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Originally Posted by atisketatasket
First thing Info does is confirm that I really don’t want a three-way session with 3 to work out our differences.
I say no, nuh-uh, no way.
She says, “That’s good, it felt like you were trying to set her up.” (I asked her to repeat to be sure I’d heard right.)
So...a session that was not my idea and that I’ve consistently said No too since it was proposed a month ago seems like me trying to set 3 up? [emoji782]
I got angry and we snapped at each other for the rest of the session. At one point I interrupt her, she says, “let me finish,” I do, I start answering, she interrupts me, then I say, “let me finish.”
At another point I snapped at her “have you *ever* been in therapy? Do you know what it’s like to be a client?” and her face got red and she snapped back, “yes, I have been in therapy!”
I pointed out about five better ways she could have expressed herself besides keeping quiet.
That’s all I remember except pacing up and down to try and stay calm, sitting in a yogi squat, and then noticing there’s an awful lot of religious signs and symbols on her desk and bulletin board and shelves. More than I thought.
So yeah. Good times.
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Ugh...what?????
So, Info seems to be a white knight in shining armor defending 3 against..........you?
Methinks Info is a tad too defensive about all things therapy and therapists.
I'm sorry it sucked. I do applaud your efforts to remain calm (I would've probably walked out and then sent a scathing, sarcastic email as a follow-up).