I would like to "weigh" in here... on this subject... I am not a jealous person... really have no jealousy within me...
My best friend is an extremely jealous person... and it is so very, very uncomfortable for me... the friendship of 29 years...
Her jealousy... is so extreme ... that I do not want to be around her hubby... at all...
I wouldn't want her hubby.. have never wanted her hubby.. have never flirted with her hubby... yet... there it is the jealousy...
She once got jealous because I bought a new car... and her husband.. liked my taste in cars... hello... how on earth could I control that he liked my car???
It is not just that ... she is jealous.. of... any other friends that I have... if I buy a something... no matter how small..
This jealousy thing of her.. makes her.. in my opinion a very bitter person... unable to fully enjoy life...
For me the friend... it makes me "guard" my words around her...
So... I just for me... a very long time ago... when I was a teenager.. decided... jealousy just wasn't worth it..
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