[QUOTE=Englishandproud1986;5914535]I'm lying here feeling utterly and completely useless and I'm so confused on what to do.
I married my husband a few months ago. Everything was fine, other than the normal couple arguments over stupid things.
Get out NOW. My first husband began with just yelling & punching walls. In the last 3 years of our marriage, he hit me, threw me against the wall, put guns to my head, etc. You are in danger. It is hard to leave, I know. My husband would find me wherever I hid & threatened to kill anyone who was helping me. I finally got help from the police. PLEASE do call the police! Make a report. Get a stay-away order. This will Not improve. It is NOT your fault.
I have now been married for over 30 years to a GREAT guy who has never shown one iota of violence. Being hit is Not part of being married!!!
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Dixie
I, being poor, have only my dreams;
I have spread my dreams under your feet;
Tread softly because you tread on my dreams. 
W.B. Yeats (1865–1939)
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