[QUOTE=RACEKA;1613642]Has anyone had to go through the death of an abusive parent?

I just wanted to hear how you felt when they died. Did you grieve? Did you celebrate? How do you feel now?

I was SO relieved when my father died. He had been violently absusive toward me when I was a child & verbally abusive when I was an adult. He was not Always abusive but enough to make me terrified. So when he died, I said "Thank You God!!!" and I did not feel guilty for being relieved!