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Originally Posted by stopdog
The thing for me is that even though I read about their techniques and can identify them - I still wanted the woman to admit she did X to get me to do/feel/etc Y. And Y was never my response - usually my response was frustrated rage at how badly she failed. It always seemed to me like she was simply treating me like a moron both in the technique and because I did not see how Y would help at all - I wanted the explanation about how Y was supposed to help me in the way I wanted help.
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So is it about her denying your autonomy and freedom of self-determination? I think it's weird that you haven't been able to find a therapist who can help you. My sense is that you're an unusual client, but for a therapist with a certain personality type, I think that would be refreshing. Also, I think you would hate my mostly soft and squishy T. I find her to be a formidable foe at times, but I doubt you would.