That's why I'd have him do a poem; because it's not something he would want to do or that he'd see the point of, etc. just like you have no interest in listing goals, etc. They just pick things out of books sometimes you'd think, are on autopilot. That being said, I was always jealous because my T never gave homework, I didn't even know the concept until boards like this. Other people would talk about books their T suggested or books they worked through with their T, etc. and I love doing stuff like that but my T and I have totally different tastes and whatever book or movie or thing she'd suggest, I'd run out and buy it and it would be horrible, LOL. I don't think my husband has forgiven her for recommending "Cider House Rules".