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Old Nov 30, 2017, 06:04 PM
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Originally Posted by mostlylurking View Post
How do you feel about your T? You mentioned them sounding sharp, do you feel safe and comfortable with them? Or to go a bit further do they seem caring and kind toward you?

From what you describe and from my entirely non-expert knowledge it seems like something akin to DID is possible (I think it's all on a spectrum-- dissociation is a coping mechanism for many). But if you have children in your system (as would be probable with DID I believe?) it doesn't seem likely they'd come forward if your T is "particularly serious and rather sharp" with you.

Do you remember much from childhood?
T is not normally 'sharp' w/me...I think it was a bit of a shock that I didn't recall my mother's funeral, boyfriend for two years, etc. Yes, I trust my T, feel safe and cared for.

I don't remember anything of my mother until I was 12, but have limited memories of dad and brother. Dad was gone from home quite a bit, due to his profession, and Mom didn't work outside the home.

Obviously, I'm stumped. But it's only been lately that T has been focusing on things I don't recall. I feel I'm disappointing T, yet know T would be unhappy that I feel this way. T has always told me there's nothing I can do that would be a disappointment. (sigh)
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