I wash my hair every 3 days usually. I have this shampoo that i can just literally put on top of my hair and it works as a conditioner too, very little effort. I also shower at night which means no hair drying at all. If I want it styled for the next morning I can braid it and it comes out wavy but its perfectly fine if I don't even brush it after the shower and just go straight to bed with a towel on my pillow. Try at night and leave it alone, you don't have to do a thing that way.