I pondered this question for several days before I make my commit. My mother was the one that caused me so much emotional pain all through my life. She died on a Friday the 13,2011. I did cry when my sister in law told me, but after that I haven't felt anything except hurt, and anger. Out of all of the 6 kids she had, she made sure that I wasn't in the will. I didn't want anything from her, but to know that she loved me. About 2 years before she passed, she accused me of something I didn't do, so when she became very sick, my husband, and I took care of both my parents until my other siblings got there, and we never spoke again, I tried to talk with her a couple times, but she shut me out. A couple years later my father was on his death bed, and my siblings said that I needed to go see him, and that no one would give me a problem. My husband, and I went down, we only stayed a short time. My father abused me also but physically, and sexually, and he always did what my mother wanted. Anyway my father apologized but I don't know if it was for the abuse, or for the will. I have my own house, paid for, and 6 akers, not a mobile home on a plot, so I didn't need, or want anything from them, except to know they loved me. I dough they ever did, and I will never find that out. When my father passed I cried once but that was all. Now I don't feel anything for them.