I am very open with everyone about the fact that I'm in therapy. I even told a waitress in a cafe once when she asked what I was up to for the rest of the day - hah!

I don't talk to many people about the details of it, though. I sometimes talk to my partner a bit about it, and I did tell two of my in-person friends about the erotic transference - they were both very understanding. They are people I would trust with basically anything though.