My brothers ex seems to ignor the rules of the divorce. She's to pay half the house payment and never has made one payment this year. The house has been up for sell for almost a year now without an offer. With the house it's in a new subdivision with new houses being built around it, there aren't many takers. The cars are leases in his name. She is suppose to make payments on the one she has and doesn't. My brother has given her money to make payments and she's taken the money and used it for other things. ( he's been to trusting with her ) So not to mess up his credit he makes the payments. He had money taken from her pay checks, but she quits her jobs when they start taking the money out. Brother has told me that she now owes him over $30,000 in back money she was to pay him. I don't know what else he can do. From what he tells me he's in a great big hole.

His ex has been nothing but nasty throughout this divorce. She told him that she couldn't deal with his cancer any longer and that's the reason for the divorce. Her leaving had nothing to do with her boyfriend she had on the side or anything. She's stole money out of my brothers checking account. This is another reason maybe why I want my brother to move in with me. Everytime she calls him she wants something and he gives into her thinking they are going to work it out. If he moves here he'll be 2 hours away from her and maybe could focus on getting his life straighten out.

I'm just his momma and I want to make everything alright for him. I know I can't fix his problems for him. But it's hard to sit on my hands.