Quote:
Originally Posted by Patagonia
As stated above fetishes & kinks can run a broad spectrum. As for myself I do not care, anymore, of the history of where they came from & what reason they connected to me.
In the bdsm culture it’s always preached to be safe, sane & of course consenting. Consent is the ultimate limit.
Even on a very popular fetish site where rape play is heavily discussed there are some that chime in that this is not legal.
But the original poster is looking for answers for their consenting partner. Such as how to conduct a take down or kidnapping scene.
The OP is looking to the community for safe, sane answers from like minded individuals. Not a way to commit a crime.
The tricky part is finding out what exactly is legal where you are. I’ve recently found out that if you’re caught having sex in a car, with another consenting adult (in certain states) that you can be charged with a sexual crime & put on the registry as a sex offender. Even if you’re 2 (or more) consenting adults.
Safety is the most important next to consent. Which is why in the bdsm culture not much is done without a plan.
So something that looks maybe dangerous or not in good taste, out in public, like a dungeon, is all heavily planned with clear headed partners.
So your kink is not my kink, does apply & should be respected. Thankfully we are all wired differently!!!
|
Ya know, Patagonia (he said wearing a pair of circa 1988 Patagonia canvas stand-up shorts) you’re one smart cookie! I always find your answers thoughtful and well presented.
Oh, lord. If I had been arrested for every time that I had sex upon the warm-warm hood or the (cooling) trunk, I would be serving a life sentence. Who, I ask, has never enjoyed a nice NJ rural trip without a stop in some disheveled road and f**ked upon the hood or the trunk (personally, each was a seasonal pick for me - the warm-warm hood during the colder months and the trunk for warm to hot days).
I have not made a big effort to find pornography or kink on the internet (and you write of forums alien to me!). Maybe -maybe - last year a friend told me that I should watch pornographic videos at pornhub.com. So I did. The search engine is wonderful... you can find something close to your peculiar tastes readily. As I returned I seemed to find that much of, maybe even a majority of, the porn was, in some way, generated by and starring ‘amateurs.’ The worst of it - to my mind - was the scripted but amateur productions ‘starring’ the same individuals again and again. And then there are the truly amateur actors who use a high-res video cams to film themselves
or have ‘cameramen.’ And the top tier, I guess, might be lovely amateur actors loving filmed and released as a semi-pro-amateur videos. The best/worst might be that filmed with a smartphone in a vertical position.
I had my fill of pornhub.com awhile back. But, yes, point me in the direction of the kinky forums that you write of!