thank you for your kind reply.
It IS amazing how a same situation can affect two people in differing ways....... makes it hard to know which way my sons will go......

I'm having a real tough time at the moment. sometimes it bothers me much more than others....... this past weekend(was a bad one) has been one of those "bothers me" times.

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This is a situation that has troubled you for sometime and I understand you may feel powerless to stop it.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Yes, the feeling "powerless" is the one "kicking my behind".

feel like a flower that's wilting.........

mandy