Mandyfins, I too would not feel happy if my husband was seeing a female therapist, and I would also not want to see a male therapist because of that reasoning concerning him..I see my husband being patient enought with the innner changes I am going through which at times is hard for him so I would not want to add any more then is necesary onto him...something they say in AA also is men with men and women women, it may not be right but I feel safer sticking with same sex.