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"List goals that you wish to attain in therapy".

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Ahhh, I see. Why do you have to do that as written homework? I would rebel against that too. Why can't you guys just discuss that topic for a few minutes at your next session instead of making this big homework deal out of it? Can you tell him "great topic, let's discuss--if you want to have a written record, please feel free to take notes"? I think goals can be pretty amorphous, such as "I want to understand myself better" or "I want my relationships with people to improve" or "I want to be happier in life" or "I want to heal." Or maybe you could just say, "I'm not sure, let's explore that in session."

I am not a "list my goals out on paper" sort of person either so I sympathize!