Thank you.
If you do not understand the basic concept that the only thing consistent in our lives on this little blue marble, is that everything CHANGES! This is my point, to you, to ArtChic, everyone, myself included.
We do not know the future, what imprints on us & our psyche, how our environment, past, present, emotions, even down to our basic principals & ethics...they can change.

Look at the bigger picture here! OP, what are you willing to examine in your life to make a possible change for this person. If you say nothing, then walk away.

SadGirl we are not defined by our labels in life! Whether it’s in the MH or bdsm community. My labels & “preferences” change according to my mood so why do I wanto carry those labels around. Labels are a form of narrow minded thinking that I’ve learned to steer clear of bec I’ve noticed people like to be in groups & say “metoo”. So if you don’t think you’ll ever ever change....well you’re missing out on a ton.

There’s no flexibility in this post...& I think I’m the oldest one on it. So I’ll leave for you young kids.
Carry on.