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Old Jan 14, 2008, 04:54 PM
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Well I'll tell you what the blazes it has to do with it::

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That's why I choose WOMEN for T's. They
don't get hot and bothered by inferences in the working relationships.

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Women T's can have erotic countertransference and transference with both men and women clients. It doesn't matter what combination of genders you have. It does matter what you are comfortable with, and you should stick with that, of course.

I just think that what's right for you is not necessarily right for everyone and Pink's T seems to be perfectly ethical and upright. Pink has not expressed doubt about this relationship so I don't think it's fair for any of us to tell her that it is wrong. Nothing untoward has occurred and no boundaries have been crossed. Expressions of love feel beautiful and healing to me. An acknowledgement of erotic transference allows the working through of this issue. (See my post today in Mandyfins' thread.)

You know, it seems a bit over the line and intrusive to try and warn someone about something that is perfectly logical, natural and beautiful.

Peace

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