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I too would not feel happy if my husband was seeing a female therapist,

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Ah, you understand.

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I would also not want to see a male therapist because of that reasoning concerning him..I see my husband being patient enought with the innner changes I am going through which at times is hard for him so I would not want to add any more then is necesary onto him

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> this is partly my point--- therapy affects our partners even if we keep things secret-- it can still affect them. I think you are being a very understanding partner, in taking care to keep your marriage healthy at the same time working hard at your therapy.
thank you for replying..... sometimes I feel so alien--then, only to post and find I'm not as different as I thought.

mandy