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Originally Posted by mindmechanic
@BudFox: Yes; I'm thinking about not paying for those sessions. But I have a feeling that she would not allow that and say that these are things that we have to work through, and think that I am trying to control the situation.
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Yep they all say that. Then there is no incentive for her to avoid hurting you, or to repair ruptures as a priority, since not doing either of these things prolongs the process, and that benefits her monetarily and probably in other ways. She could act out endlessly, and you would be on the hook to keep coming and keep paying, in order to "work through" all of it.