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If he had a female T and was having erotic transference issues, yes, I do think I would be jealous. I'm not saying that's the right way to feel,

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post"> Thanks for your honest reply, I don't see though why it wouldn't be right for you to feel jealous........ don't we all want our spouse to desire us, solely?

and is it not being hypocritical to think they can do that in therapy but their wife or husband better not?......

I don't see sharing one's sexual emotions with an outsider as conducive to a healthy marriage.

I guess if they have an "open" marriage where they share sex with others -- then I could see the sexual feelings being OK in therapy.

maybe I'm just not getting this............

thanks again,
mandy