i have not posted many post lately what with whats been going on irl and with all thats been going on here at pc
hopefully both are starting to calm down

well those that now us will now of struggles other eldest daughter and aligations against my hubby her stepdad, well this part of it has been resolved, but still lots are going on

i havent seen daughter since new year when she arguing in car nearly made me loose concentration and have a accident i refuse to put myself in this postion any more i have never been on my ownher and on this occasion i had my two other daughters with me

do not forget daughter has her own problems , she is living in a hostel that does respite for adults with learning dificulties and at this time attends a day center for adults with disabilities and learning problems,

the hostel are great and so is social worker if i need to know anything all i need to do is ask, i do not need contact with center,

today we had some things to take care of in town as we were walking down from carpark (myself and hubby) two youngest had gone a head there were a group of adults from the center walking towards us

daughter was amongest these she just stood there screeming and crying and all the other women in group were fussing her

i sugested to hubby to go other way so as not to have contact with her
and i carried on towards them she carried on crying i explained she should go to bus like shes meant to
as they walked of the tutor in charge came around the corner and said now ?????????? we will not have that now

and it was all over

we carried on with our own errands but this has left a sort of ill feeling here as it looked like i choose daughter over hubby i didnt i thought doing what i did would lesson the impact