Yeah, depending on how strong the bond is. My T recently said something hurtful. I was asking, what does it mean if I get fired (after asking God for help in getting this job), and T blurted out "it means you suck". I was FLOORED. He quickly covered it up, like he was totally joking, but wow... you don't joke with someone like that when they are terrified they actually will be fired. But overall he's great so honestly I need to just forgive this and move on.