I must be missing something. Is this the quote that has people up in arms:
“One of the things that I said was how is it fair at 15, 18 or 20 patients lives are going to be affected because two young people decides to shag up and have a baby?”
It’s insensitive but far from verbal abuse or being some irrepairable attack IMO. Ops response is a normal reaction to being exposed to bad boundaries. If the therapist doesn’t want to be exposed to personal comments she ought to know not to burden the client with her personal struggles.