Reward yiurself by getting a new T who can help you cancel out the harm that previous T did & also learn functional skills to help you achieve the independence that is appropriate for you to have by this point in life.

I remember way back, fighting for my independence from my parents from the age of 13. I thought because I was an only child that my parents wete trying to keep me their baby forever & I was darned if that was going to happen. It actually wasnt until just a few years ago that I realized just how dysfunctional my parents were & my mom not driving was what kept me from being involved in activities that other kids got to enjoy. If I couldnt walk somewhere in an unsafe area of town, I couldnt go or be involved. My parents embarrassed me to death so I avoided doing anything with them though I didnt understand it all at the time. Growing up is never easy & some parents make it more difficult than others.