the thing which is odd to me is that nothing in Pink's post was sexualized... so why sexualize it for her? It would make me pretty mad... i'd feel personally like it was insulting to my own abilities to percieve and an insult to my T's integrity. The relationship is pretty intimate regardless, and such a sexualization would be more likely to cause a person to defend themselves and their T rather than see it as any sort of warning.

perhaps if a well-intended warning was what was meant, then it was poorly chosen wording and tone. Maybe posing the question as to whether pink felt her T was trustworthy and she was secure in feeling safe... posing a question is often more effective than assumption or advice.

i'm sorry anyone has been abused in anyway by a T, that is a horrid experience. But a deep sincere relationship is very healing too.