I saw two of them at the same time. I stopped telling the first woman about anything other than my sick person - which even she could not screw up and I told the second one about other things. It worked well for me. I did not seek their permission to see both of them and never spoke about one to the other. I have never believed in the idea of working through their **** ups as helping me in any way. I tried it a couple of times and it was a spectacular failure on the part of the woman. So I stopped bothering with her on that.