I'm actually entirely with Stopdog on this one... hah.

I don't think it was appropriate or ethical for mindmechanic's T to share the personal information that she shared, and it was even more stupid to float the idea of possibly moving away without being clear on what was actually going to happen. I'm not surprised that mindmechanic lashed out the way they did and I don't blame them for it. The T should have been aware of the very strong feelings that would be stirred up by her behaviour and able to handle it more kindly and gracefully (or not stirred them up in the first place, of course).

The whole situation has come about because the T has bad boundaries and/or is overwhelmed by personal difficulties that have left her unfit to practice. It's her responsibility alone.