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Old Dec 04, 2017, 03:41 PM
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I agree. She will still respond to me if I text her first but even then now those conversations are brief and superficial. I am starting to think I was just a friend of convenience all along and that she never really liked me as an actual friend. I understand that friendships come and go but I feel like if someone really valued you as a friend, they would be a little more considerate when ending a friendship rather than icing the person out and acting like they never meant anything to the person they decided to ignore. I’ve had good friendships in the past fade out. They were good friendships from childhood and I still have respect for them. I believe even when a friendship ends, the way it ends can also determine what kind of friend they were in the first place.
"...the way it ends can also determine what kind of friend they were in the first place"

Thank you for sharing this. I lost a friendship of 17 years about a year ago and it nearly killed me. The way it ended was cruel to me. This statement helps with perspective.
Thanks for this!
rdgrad15