well they kind of do... because very similar replies have been posted before.

projecting your own fears in a histrionic way onto someone else and trying to call it support .. ? it sure isn't

i'm very very sorry if someone's had a traumatic experience but to overlay that onto someone else's separate expereince isn't now and hasn't previously been appreciated.

I adore these very open, selfless and thought-provoking posts by Pinksoil and it would be such a loss if she was to become discouraged from posting them because of wild, alarmist, from out in left field types of replies that are about the experiences of the person replying, not about the experiences of Pinksoil.