personally, i think the getting up to the orgasm is the best part. because its like once you orgasm (or me at least) its all over. so I would rather only have one orgasm but have that feeling right beforehand for a long time.

Now for a guy... I agree that I think its harder (no pun intended) for them to go several times. Cause yeah, they have to build it back up. I think once I start not being able to have one at all is when Ill start worrying. Im okay with having one at a time.