I think by the time that lark is ready and able to adopt, those won't be concerns. Also, adoption agencies do ask a lot of questions a ndx try very hard to make sure the prospective parent is able to take care of the child. I'm sure lark was merely asking out of curiosity right now than going out tomorrow to get a kid. The original post did start with an "if" iirc. Also, I know a few people who adopted and they waited a long time to be sure they were ready. It is a big decision, and it costs a pretty penny too. Not something that can be done spur of the moment.