thanks, guys I mean I have sweet 9-year-olds, I don't want her behavior rubbing off on them my 9-year-old Jack looks at her and said "you know daddy works really hard for us to give us a good life Leena(Kaileena he calls her Leena) you have to be respectful or Santa won't come." it's pretty bad when my 9-year-old gets it and my 13 year old can't.