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Originally Posted by seesaw
I think your intuition is right on. She is a fair weather friend. When she needs you, she is there. She's not there for YOU when YOU need her. I know it's hard to let go of friends when you don't have that many, but it sounds like she makes you feel worse about yourself than better, so why keep a toxic person in your life?
I'd let this friendship fade away.
Seesaw
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I agree. I never felt like I could fully confide in her. She would sometimes ask how I was but if I started to vent about something she would either get mad because I am not doing something right in her eyes or she would turn it into all about her. She doesn’t even ask how I am though anymore. I agree, it is time to let the friendship fade away. And if she does come running back if she begins ro have problems in her relationship then I will keep my distance since it means sje only sees me as a sounding board. I can bet you a hundred dollars she will actually do that. She talks bad about anyone who she feels is even just slightly annoying her or not doing something she wants them to do so I know for sure she will come back and talk smack eventually. In that case, I will ignore.