Thanks so much bebop and sabster.....Your thoughts and suggestions mean so much to me. I do realize this day and age that things are so much different, but I still don't like it. And yes bebop, I misrepresented myself earlier. I would never ever be disappointed in my children as beings, only in their decisions and/or actions.

I have been told 12-17 are the hardest years, and then they go back to lovin' ya again!