just seeking some feedback on a situation...

let's say you and your spouse are pregnant and you have a c-section planned for the Thursday before the baby's due date. and that 'Thursday date' is the one you've been telling your family and others that that is when the baby is/will be coming.

no matter the timing, if you & your spouse (for whatever reasons) changed the c-section date and move it three days earlier to that week Monday, wouldn't you tell your family members about that???

and if so, who is "important" enough that you would share that info/date change with?? just the parents (soon to be grandparents), siblings on both sides, only immediate family, extended family like aunts/uncles/cousins, with friends, put on social media for others to see, or no one???

what's your decision or choice and why...