I was in one of these situations also, and was only after getting distance from it that i realized it was pointless suffering.
Seems most of these "transference" scenarios are all about first-do-harm. The client is splayed open like a gutted fish and unable to function, and everyone says it's normal.
I think it's critical to reject all the cult-y procolmations about the necessity of submitting your feelings for processing.
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