{{{{{{{{{{kathy}}}}}}}}}}

they tried to make us "choose" between the husband & the son
truly honey, it's not like that, you do your best for them both, we feel sure you do,
we agree with Perna, that anyone who is trying to split this into a choice is not doing any of you any good.

our son has turned on us in the supermarket, accusing us of
abusing him during his childhood. he is a delusional paranoid schizophrenic & the meds don't work for him. it can be very embarrassing.

is it your bad feeling or trm's ? it is important to work out who the feeling belongs to

it sounds like the daughter has good case workers & carers, so that is good, more than we could get for our son.